Leaving the Nest
It is a common saying to" leave one's nest", another
milestone in one's life. There was really no reason to
leave the place I called home for 26 years (stop rolling
those eyeballs). My parents made it a comfortable place
to be. Naturally I paid my parents rent and did most of
the chores as my parents weren't getting any younger.
But there was a problem. At the age of 26, I had been
working for the Department of Defense for nearly five
years. I was a tax payer with no substantial deductions.
It was time to leave the nest or find myself forking
over my paycheck to pay taxes.
Word got out at work and my fellow co-workers started
their crusade to get me out of the house. The two young
women, both younger than me but spoken for, wasted no
time in finding the right place. As luck would have it
they happened to find an ad posted in the shipyard on a
bulletin board. Knowing me all too well, these two
ladies ripped the poster off of the bulletin board and
presented their find to me. I was flabbergasted but was
proud to have co-workers who cared about me that way.

I had been working at the current site for about a year.
It was the same place where my father was working so we
shared the same commute. Mare Island Naval Shipyard is
located in the small town of Vallejo. Some called it a
hick town and others an underdeveloped community. But
Vallejo would soon be my new home, forty miles away from
my parents. We had to find some time to scope out the
place. My boss, who got to know my father as they worked
on projects together, watched over me as though my
father entrusted him with my care. Not only did he find
the time to send my two co-workers and me to checkout my
potential pad, but he even paid for lunch - he came with
us..
The house was a small place that sat in a plot of land
that could hold four more structures of the same size as
the house. In front of the house was a wall of trees
with live rosemary bushes supported by a low level fence
along the side. The outside was very rustic and looked
more like a shack than a house. But once inside our
mouths dropped to the wall-to-wall, bare hardwood
floors. The walls were made of knotty pine and the
ceiling was vaulted. It was like a ski chalet only I
would never see snow there. A wood burning stove was
used as a fireplace and actually could heat the entire
house. The yard, being the rest of the plot of land had
three kinds of trees - apple, plum and apricot. There
were strawberry plants and artichokes. The yard was long
enough to get some football practice in. I think my two
co-workers liked the house more than me, for they were
non-stop in constantly pleading to get me to just say
"yes, I'll take it". And not to disappoint either one, I
said those exact words.
My boss was overjoyed, I wouldn't have to come to work
tired from the commute. I could become part of "the
family". My boss was big on house parties, so now there
would be one more house to party in. In December of that
year, after I formally moved out of the house we had a
party close to Christmas time. It was the first one I
hosted for my co-workers but it would not be the last.
As a final note to this story, I have the most
incredible parents. Remember the rent I paid my parents
every month while living in their house? How do you
think I was able to put half down on the house? Let's
just say that when I sold the house five years later I
returned the money that was used for the down payment
plus 10% interest. And I still came out with a tidy
profit, some cash to pay off a honeymoon. But that is
yet another chapter of my life .